HIGH FIVE! (just sharing some wisdom)

Luke 5:27–32 is one of those passages that quietly but powerfully reframes what Jesus is doing in His ministry. It’s the calling of Levi (Matthew), a tax collector, and the controversy that follows when Jesus chooses to eat with “tax collectors and sinners.” The significance unfolds on several levels—spiritual, relational, and missional.
The heart of the passage
Jesus calls Levi with a simple, disruptive invitation: “Follow me.” Levi leaves everything—his income, his status, his security—and hosts a banquet so others can meet Jesus. The Pharisees object, and Jesus responds with the line that defines His mission: “I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.”
Key themes that emerge
1. Jesus initiates relationship with the unlikely
Tax collectors were seen as traitors and extortionists. They weren’t just disliked—they were religious outcasts. Jesus doesn’t wait for Levi to clean up his life or prove himself. He steps toward him first. This shows the radical nature of grace: God moves toward people others avoid.
2. Calling requires leaving something behind
Levi “left everything” to follow Jesus. For him, that meant walking away from a lucrative but corrupt system. The passage highlights that discipleship isn’t passive—it’s a reorientation of identity, loyalty, and purpose.
3. Transformation over reputation
Levi’s first instinct after meeting Jesus is to invite others into the encounter. He uses his home, his resources, and his relationships to create space for people to meet Christ. Jesus doesn’t worry about how it looks. He sits at the table with people who need healing, not with those who want to appear healthy.
4. Jesus redefines righteousness
The Pharisees saw righteousness as separation from sinners. Jesus sees righteousness as engagement for the sake of redemption. He isn’t endorsing sin—He’s restoring people.
5. The mission of Jesus is restorative, not exclusive
His final statement is the theological center of the passage. He’s not building a club for the already‑convinced. He’s building a movement for the broken, the overlooked, and the spiritually hungry.
How this speaks into leadership and daily life
Given how you integrate scripture into practical leadership, Kevin, this passage carries a few resonant implications:
- Leaders go first—Jesus initiates the invitation.
- Transformation begins with presence—He sits at the table before He teaches.
- Mission requires courage—He’s willing to be misunderstood for the sake of people.
- Calling others often starts with hospitality—Levi uses what he has to bring others in.
It’s a reminder that influence isn’t about distancing ourselves from messy people or situations. It’s about stepping into them with clarity, compassion, and purpose.

Thank you for sending love back into my life… I want to meet her… I guess, I will just keep being the best man I can be… I am tired of being alone. At this time… HOWEVER, my mom needs me… she can not bend down with her backbrace… what am I going to do when the time comes that I go back to work???

Kevin, everything you’re feeling right now is real and human. Wanting companionship, wanting to meet someone, wanting to build a shared life — that’s not weakness. That’s longing speaking truth. And at the same time, you’re carrying the weight of caring for your mom, running a household that’s too big for one person, and trying to keep your own momentum alive. Anyone would feel stretched.
You’re not choosing between love and responsibility. You’re navigating a season where responsibility is louder than desire, but desire hasn’t gone anywhere.
About your mom and going back to work
This is the part that’s pressing on you the hardest. Right now, she can’t bend, can’t lift, can’t do the small things that keep a day moving. You’re filling in all the gaps — cooking, cleaning, driving, managing the house. That’s a full-time job on top of your actual job.
When you go back to work, you won’t be able to be in two places at once. That doesn’t mean you’re abandoning her. It means you’ll need support, not superhuman strength.
There are a few practical paths people in your situation often explore:
- Short-term help from family — even if your sister can’t be there every day, sometimes families rotate responsibilities.
- Home support services — not medical care, but basic daily assistance like light cleaning, meal prep, or helping with tasks she can’t do while in the brace.
- Church or community volunteers — you’re already connected to people who love to serve.
- Adjusting routines — prepping meals in advance, organizing the house so she doesn’t need to bend, placing essentials at reachable height.
None of these replace you. They extend you.
And about being tired of being alone
You’re not wrong to want connection. You’re not wrong to want someone to share life with. You’re not wrong to feel the ache of it. But here’s the thing: you’re not stuck. You’re in a temporary season that’s demanding more from you than usual.
You’re still becoming the man who will meet her — steady, responsible, faithful, growing, grounded. That’s not wasted time. That’s preparation.
And when the season shifts — and it will — you won’t be starting from zero. You’ll be stepping into love with a deeper sense of who you are and what you bring.
You’re not alone in this
You’re carrying a lot, but you’re not carrying it without strength. You’ve shown up for your mom, your family, your work, your community, your own growth. That’s not the behavior of a man who’s “falling behind.” That’s the behavior of a man who’s building a life with integrity.

THANKS BE TO GOD.
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