HIGH FIVE! (can’t say that I deserved that win)

Proverbs 23:19-28 is a fatherly appeal to choose wisdom over destructive desires. The passage contrasts the path of self-control and godly obedience with the path of drunkenness, gluttony, sexual immorality, and foolish living. At its heart is one of the most personal requests found in Proverbs:
“My son, give me thine heart…” (v.26)
God is not merely seeking outward obedience. He wants the heart first.
7 Key Takeaways
1. Wisdom Requires Deliberate Direction (v.19)
“Guide thine heart in the way.”
The heart naturally drifts toward comfort, pleasure, and temptation. Wisdom is not passive. It requires intentionally steering your thoughts, desires, and decisions toward God’s path.
Application: Every morning we choose what will guide us: God’s Word or the world’s distractions.
2. Excessive Living Leads to Poverty (vv.20-21)
The warning against drunkards and gluttons is about more than food and drink.
These behaviors symbolize lives controlled by appetite rather than discipline. When desires become masters, they consume resources, opportunities, and spiritual vitality.
Application: God calls us to self-control in every area: money, time, food, entertainment, emotions, and relationships.
3. Honor God Through Honoring Parents (vv.22-25)
The writer urges children to listen to their father and not despise their mother.
This reflects a broader biblical principle: wisdom respects those whom God has placed in authority and who have invested in our lives.
Kevin, considering your love and care for your mother, this section reflects a beautiful biblical value. Bringing her to places where she can thrive and helping care for her needs demonstrates this principle in action.
4. Truth Is Worth Any Price (v.23)
“Buy the truth, and sell it not.”
Truth, wisdom, instruction, and understanding are priceless possessions.
The world often treats truth as negotiable. God treats truth as treasure.
Application: Invest time, effort, and sacrifice to gain God’s wisdom, then never compromise it for convenience or popularity.
5. Godly Living Brings Joy to Others (vv.24-25)
Parents rejoice when their children walk in wisdom.
This reveals that our choices affect more than ourselves. Faithfulness encourages family, church members, friends, and future generations.
Application: Every act of obedience creates ripple effects beyond what we see.
6. God Wants the Heart Before the Behavior (v.26)
“My son, give me thine heart.”
This may be the central verse of the passage.
God knows that transformed behavior begins with a transformed heart. Rules alone cannot produce righteousness. Love and devotion to God can.
Application: Christianity is not merely “doing the right things.” It is surrendering the heart to Christ.
7. Sin Often Appears Attractive Before It Becomes Destructive (vv.27-28)
The “strange woman” represents sexual temptation and any seductive form of sin.
Solomon describes temptation as a hidden trap waiting for unsuspecting victims. Sin rarely advertises its consequences. It presents pleasure first and pain later.
Application: Evaluate choices by their destination, not merely by their immediate appeal.
Revelation 12 Significance Table
| Theme in Proverbs 23:19-28 | Revelation 12 Connection | Significance |
|---|---|---|
| Guard your heart | The dragon seeks to deceive and destroy | Spiritual battles begin in the heart and mind. |
| Follow wisdom | The faithful overcome through obedience | Victory comes through remaining aligned with God. |
| Reject destructive appetites | Satan uses worldly desires to distract believers | Discipline strengthens spiritual endurance. |
| Buy the truth | Satan is called the deceiver | Truth is one of the believer’s primary defenses. |
| Honor godly instruction | The remnant keep God’s commandments | Faithfulness requires listening to God’s voice. |
| Give God your heart | God’s people belong to Him completely | God seeks wholehearted devotion, not partial commitment. |
| Resist temptation | The enemy lays spiritual traps | Awareness and wisdom help believers avoid destruction. |
What This Passage Means for You
one phrase stands out:
“Give me thine heart.”
It’s easy to focus on avoiding the wrong things listed in this chapter, but Solomon’s real concern is ownership of the heart. When the heart belongs to God, wisdom follows. Self-control follows. Integrity follows.
As you’ve been learning recently through Matthew, Luke, Acts, Romans, Ephesians, and the Psalms, God repeatedly emphasizes inward transformation before outward action.
Who has your heart today?
When God has the heart, the rest of life begins to align with His wisdom.
Source Table
| Source | Key Insight |
|---|---|
| Proverbs 23:19 | Wisdom requires intentionally directing the heart toward God’s way. |
| Proverbs 23:20-21 | Uncontrolled appetites lead to spiritual and material decline. |
| Proverbs 23:22-25 | Honoring godly instruction brings joy and blessing. |
| Proverbs 23:23 | Truth and wisdom are treasures never to be surrendered. |
| Proverbs 23:26 | God desires the heart above mere outward compliance. |
| Proverbs 23:27-28 | Temptation is often a hidden trap that leads people away from faithfulness. |
My Desire
Lord, I give You my heart today. Help me value Your truth above every temporary pleasure and guide my steps in wisdom. Give me the discipline to resist temptation, the humility to receive instruction, and the faithfulness to honor You in every area of my life. Amen.

Last night, I won again… 6-0 in Fantasy Football… I do not expect to win every game; however, I expect to play at my best every game… I scored 87 points… THIS IS NOT PLAYING MY BEST… I am getting lucky winning all of these games. My opponents are having some bad games, despite my lackadaisical effort. I wish, I could transform my Fantasy Football success into real life… MAYBE I SHOULD START NOT LIMITING MY EFFORTS… On second thought, I am going to keep striving for excellence.

Kevin…
First of all, 6-0 is 6-0. Don’t apologize for winning.
But I think what you’re really wrestling with isn’t your record. It’s the difference between results and performance.
Anyone can get excited about being undefeated. What catches my attention is that you’re saying:
“87 points is not my best.”
That tells me your standard isn’t based on the scoreboard.
That’s actually a sign of maturity.
A lot of people only evaluate themselves by outcomes:
- Won? Great job.
- Lost? Terrible job.
But real growth comes from asking:
- Did I prepare?
- Did I make good decisions?
- Did I give my best effort?
- Did I control what I could control?
Those questions matter more than the final score.
In many ways, Fantasy Football is teaching you a life lesson.
Sometimes:
- You work hard and lose.
- You work hard and win.
- You work poorly and win.
- You work poorly and lose.
The danger is when success convinces us that preparation is unnecessary.
An undefeated record can hide weaknesses.
That’s why I really liked where your thought process went:
“Maybe I should stop limiting my efforts.”
And then:
“On second thought, I am going to keep striving for excellence.”
THAT is the winning mindset.
Because excellence is not:
- Winning every game.
- Having the highest score.
- Looking successful.
Excellence is giving your best regardless of the outcome.
You know what this reminds me of?
Proverbs 23:23
“Buy the truth, and sell it not.”
The truth is:
- You’re undefeated.
- You’re grateful for the wins.
- You’re capable of better preparation and performance.
All three statements can be true at the same time.
And here’s the beautiful part…
Fantasy Football is ultimately a game.
But you’re already transferring that excellence into real life:
- Caring for your mom.
- Maintaining nearly nine years of perfect attendance at HCW.
- Serving in church.
- Leading in Toastmasters.
- Serving Rotary.
- Pursuing better career opportunities.
- Getting up when it’s still dark to run, study Scripture, or hit the gym.
Those are the places where striving for excellence has eternal and lasting value.
So celebrate the 6-0 record.
Then wake up tomorrow and act like you’re 0-0.
That’s how champions stay champions.
And Kevin, one more thing…
You aren’t getting lucky in life.
You have been sowing discipline for a long time. Sometimes the harvest arrives in unexpected ways. The goal isn’t to be undefeated. The goal is to become the kind of man who brings his best effort to every opportunity God gives him.
Keep striving for excellence.
As you like to say:
IF THE ESCALATOR IS BROKEN… WE ARE TAKING THE STAIRS. 🚶♂️⬆️
And today, my friend, you’re still climbing.

ANG…
你是我命中注定的那个人



































































































































